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Remember – possible backlash to gay weddings in Minnesota

Happy people - but beware the backlash to gay weddings in MN

Amazing dancer Nic Lincoln in Minneapolis, MN

Photo by V.P. Virtucio

Photo by V.P. Virtucio

Dear Readers,

I just saw a great night of dance (like ballet, but different) by the amazing Nic Lincoln, who is an artist/dancer/activist and he raised a warning about the wonderful new law allowing gay marriage in the state of Minnesota. Nic Lincoln talked about the inevitable backlash that comes when rights are extended to minorities. Now, I wasn’t around during the civil rights advances of the 1960s, but I remember when Obama was first elected, and I definitely felt the zeitgeist was that since we’ve elected an African-American president, that example of open-mindedness means there’s no racism left in America (which was subsequently proved wrong).

So, maybe you know all these facts and have heard these warnings before, but they came as a wake-up call to me. I’m not that political, so I hadn’t thought through this ramification. Sigh…two steps forward, one step back (and actually, Nic Lincoln used the phrase “one step forward, two steps back”.)

All the best, my friends – let’s keep each other in our prayers.

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Open letter to all couples for gay weddings I’ve performed in Minnesota

Gay weddings legal in MN

To all gay and lesbian couples I’ve officiated weddings for in the last fifteen years in Minnesota:

Congratulations on Minnesota passing the same-sex marriage bill! I’ve emailed and phoned many of you, the couples I’ve performed commitment ceremonies for (weddings in all but name), but I’ve had difficulty finding some of you – especially when trying to contact couples from the late 90s, I realize that it’s hard! We not only didn’t have Facebook back then, but also emails back in the day tended to be from your work or from some ancient provider like aol, and so many people have switched jobs and homes…

So – whether I’ve been able to contact you or not, this is an open letter – feel free to call or email me:

  • I’d be proud and happy to sign your marriage license for your wedding ceremony I performed all those years ago!
  • And if you’d like a renewal of vows ceremony, that would be free of charge, too – a wonderful celebration of your years together!

Thinking of you, my friends, on this happy summer!

Warmly,

Rev. Tomkin Coleman
612.986.5528
wedding@mnminister.com

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The Transition for an Officiant for Gay Weddings in Minnesota

Gay marriage in MN now legal

What a year!

Here’s some fun logistical thoughts about the soon-to-be-voted-on Gay Marriage Law in Minnesota: It was only a couple weeks ago that I had met with a wonderful gay couple to be an officiant for their wedding this summer…and now it looks like what was officially going to be a “commitment ceremony” will actually be a wedding after all! Or wait…if they get married in June, they’ll still have to sign the papers in August to make it legal (assuming they want to)…wow, it just shows how odd it is that same-sex couples can get married in some places, not in others, be legal in some states, and not in others. I only wish that Minnesota had done it earlier (Iowa? Really?), but better late than never.

And here’s another thought – I’ve performed dozens of gay weddings in Minnesota up till now throughout the last two decades(!), but up till now they’ve always been looked at by the state as “just commitment ceremonies” (even though they were weddings). So each of these couples will still have to go through the paperwork if they want to make it official. So I’ll be contacting each one of them as soon as the law passes, and see if they want me to help them get their marriage license signed! Or maybe they’ll want another small ceremony, just with a few close loved ones? Hmm…this is a historic time, never to be repeated again. It will be interesting to see how the next few months go.

Commitment ceremony - now a gay wedding in MN!

My sisters’s commitment ceremony in NY – now (another?) gay wedding in MN?

And my sister! Wow, so Jen got married here (my father and I officiated), but it wasn’t “legal” (sigh), and then they moved from DC to New York, got married in upstate New York one weekend when a small-town mayor was doing gay weddings for a weekend (but then he had to stop). And now gay weddings are legal in that state, but in the meantime she moved to Portland with her wife, and gay marriages aren’t legal there (sigh). But when they visit friends back in NYC, they’re married…and soon when they visit back home in Minnesota, they’ll soon be married here. Right? Because they got married in New York? Or does that particular one not count, either, because it was too soon? Wow, will they now have to get married in Minnesota a second time so they’ll have benefits here when they’re visiting? So they won’t be married at home, but when they’re here, they’re married? And will they want a wedding in Oregon when it (eventually) becomes legal there? That’s a lot of weddings!

I’m trying to keep things light-hearted – this is a time for celebration!

Welcome to equality in Minnesota!

Warmly,

Rev. Tomkin Coleman

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Minnesota name change checklist for new brides

Free new bride name change checklist

Question:

Hello Reverend!

You have a great free new-bride name change kit, but I made another online resource for local brides, too! I am the graphic designer for Brovado Weddings, a Minneapolis-based wedding photography company. I have recently spent a few weeks of research to compile a detailed and complete Post-Wedding Name Change Checklist for brides, and I’ve made it into a written article, complete with graphics. We would like to share it with you in hopes that you can either use it on your website, or add a link to the article to better serve your clients.

This is an invaluable resource for brides. After I got married, I spent an obnoxious amount of time looking for a complete checklist that would help me go about changing my name on everything that mattered. I got so frustrated with the lack of information on the web, that I decided to compile my own list and put it online for other new brides! This article is a huge help and time saver for recently married couples. I know your clients would appreciate it!

Thank you, and God bless!


Elizabeth Fillmore
Executive Assistant
Brovado Media Inc.
Cell: 612-242-8655
www.BrovadoWeddings.com

Answer:

Good afternoon, Elizabeth,

Wow, what a GREAT resource! Thank you for creating it, and thank you for letting me know (so I can tell all my readers, too!) You (and www.BrovadoWeddings.com are amazing!)

Warmly,

Rev. Tomkin

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McNamara Alumni Center – officially coolest place to get married in MN

McNamara Center for weddings in MN

Photos courtesy of Bellagala

Question:

Dear Rev. Tomkin,

It was so nice to see you yesterday! Yes, as we talked about, Buzzfeed has named the McNamara Alumni Center in Minneapolis, MN as one of the top ten coolest place to get married in the US!

Looking forward to working with you again this summer – we love when you officiate a wedding at McNamara!

Thanks!
Amy

Amy Leyden | Director of Sales & Marketing

McNamara Alumni Center
200 Oak St. SE, Suite 100 | Minneapolis, MN 55455
Direct: 612.625.8876 | Office: 612.624.9831 | Fax: 612.625.5400
Winner of Best Meeting Facility (Non-Hotel) 2007-2011
Minnesota Meetings and Events magazine

Answer:

Dear Amy,

That’s so wonderful! I love that McNamara is getting the recognition it deserves – it’s an amazing Minneapolis wedding venue, and couples LOVE it! The site is breathtaking, your staff is top-notch, the food is incredible – I love it! All three spaces for wedding ceremonies work really well, and it’s so nice that there is the different options for both big and small weddings. It’s great working in such a well-designed facility, that not only is the McNamara Alumni Center well-thought-out, with design that makes everything easy for both guests and wedding party, but is also so aesthetically exciting (and beautiful).

Looking forward to a great 2013!

Warmly,

Rev. Tomkin

Weddings at the outstanding McNamara Center on the University of Minnesota campus

The McNamara Alumni Center – named the coolest wedding venue in Minnesota by Buzzfeed!

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Great St. Paul MN Wedding Photographer

Lisa Venticinque Photography

Question:

Dear Rev. Tomkin,

Thank you for your wonderful compliments about my work! Per your request, here’s some more information about my wedding photography at Lisa25 in St. Paul, MN.

I’m a photographer who LOVES my work, and I’ve been shooting weddings since 2000. Over the years, I have slowly been transitioning into my favorite niche: unique, meaningful weddings with people who are happy to celebrate their love and network of relationships in their lives. I’m the Minnesota wedding photographer who tries to reflect who people are and how they feel; I’m not so into the glamour and the things that are currently trending in a lot of weddings. I love people, and I love to be amidst the buzz of emotion that is so present on wedding days. I strive to honor people in the way that I reflect their experience, and my ultimate goal is to reflect each person’s unique beauty.

Looking forward to seeing you for coffee – and at weddings!

Sincerely,

Lisa Venticinque
www.Lisa25.com

MN wedding photographer

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Recommendation for Sandy May Photography


The amazing Sandy May wedding photography, in the Minneapolis, MN area

The amazing Sandy May wedding photography, in the Minneapolis, MN area!



Question:

Hello Rev. Tomkin,

Just saw a great dog photo of yours on FB and wanted to say hello after working with me on a few weddings the last few years. You may know that I live and shoot weddings in Jamaica 6 months of the year, but come back every year for the summer/fall season in Minneapolis, MN.

Just a reminder to you that I will be back after May 7th, 2013, and if you know of any last minute couples that are looking for their wedding photographer in the Minneapolis, MN area, please remember me as I am hoping to pick up a few more weddings this summer.

You can check out my recent work at http://www.sandymayphoto.com .

Also, I also have been meaning to congratulate you on being ‘Officiant of the Year’ so many times. You deserve it and I know that I have really enjoyed the sensitive way that you manage your wedding ceremonies. Great work and lucky brides and grooms!

We have 4 dogs too…indeed our best friends!

Blessings,

Sandy
www.sandymayphoto.com

Answer:

Good evening, Sandy,

So good to hear from you! You are a fantastic wedding photographer, an yes, I’ll definitely put out the word to couples I work with!

Looking forward to working with you again!

Warmly,

Rev. Tomkin

Rev. Tomkin Coleman
Voted 2007′s “Best Wedding Planner” by CitySearch
Voted 2010′s, 2011′s and 2012′s “Best Wedding Officiant” by Minnesota Bride Magazine

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2013 Semple Mansion Wedding Fair rocked!

Semple Mansion in Minneapolis, MN - available for wedding ceremonies and receptions - throws an amazing wedding fair each year!

Semple Mansion in Minneapolis, MN – available for wedding ceremonies and receptions – throws an amazing wedding fair each year!

The 2013 wedding fair at the Semple Mansion in Minneapolis, MN was amazing – fun, interesting, friendly, full of good food and cheerful brides. I love this wedding fair because it’s such a great size – large enough that there’s tons of vendors, but small enough not to get overwhelmed.

Benjamin Keller Photography - wonderful work, and an awesome guy!

Benjamin Keller Photography – wonderful work, and an awesome guy!

I’ve worked with Benjamin Keller before on weddings, but I loved getting to spend some actual time with him at the wedding fair, talking about his work and getting to know him more as a person. A couple who is getting married spends so much time with their wedding photographer, it’s good to know that he’s a fun, interesting, mature guy – as well as a great photographer!

Some of the flowers displayed by MBZ Design and Events in Minneapolis, MN. I had never seen this kind of roses before - gorgeous!

Some of the flowers displayed by MBZ Design and Events in Minneapolis, MN. I had never seen this kind of roses before – gorgeous!

Boy, I usually think I know wedding flowers pretty well, but it’s not like the knowledge of people who work with them every day. MBZ Design and Events Studio had these amazing roses out – have you ever seen anything like them? Gorgeous!

Eric Sandstrom from Floral Logic (which is in the Semple Mansion), shows off his new puppy. Such a cutie!

Eric Sandstrom from Floral Logic (which is in the Semple Mansion), shows off his new puppy. Such a cutie!

Floral Logic does great work with wedding flowers, plus, I now am friends with him through all the weddings we’ve worked on together. Here’s Eric, the owner – with his new puppy!

By popular demand, here's a close-up of his sleeping puppy. Not just a dachshund, not just a dachshund puppy, but a sleeping dachshund puppy.

By popular demand, here’s a close-up of his sleeping puppy. Not just a dachshund, not just a dachshund puppy, but a sleeping dachshund puppy.

Okay, I just had to put in another photo of the pup. SO cute!

I've talked about Premier Catering before - they are wonderful! Their specialty is adjusting everything to your needs, so instead of using stock menus, they make sure everything meets your needs, budget, taste, and style. Great people, too!

I’ve talked about Premier Catering before – they are wonderful! Their specialty is adjusting everything to your needs, so instead of using stock menus, they make sure everything meets your needs, budget, taste, and style. Great people, too!

Premier Catering in Minneapolis, MN does fantastic work, and I was really lucky to have a booth right next to them at the Semple Mansion wedding fair. They were serving sweet potato shooters, which was so great, after all the other sweets – savory, a little sweet, and SO good! Love the Premier Catering!

The top floor of the Semple Mansion is amazing - this picture gives you a hint of how great it looks!

The top floor of the Semple Mansion is amazing – this picture gives you a hint of how great it looks!

Here’s a final send-off picture – isn’t the top floor of Semple Mansion amazing? Most Minneapolis and St. Paul mansions have to have a separate banquet hall, but Semple’s is built-in…their third-floor is this amazing period piece, a ballroom that is breathtakingly beautiful!

Hope to see you at the Semple Mansion wedding fair in early 2014!

Rev. Tomkin

Rev. Tomkin Coleman
Voted 2007′s “Best Wedding Planner” by CitySearch
Voted 2010′s, 2011′s and 2012′s “Best Wedding Officiant” by Minnesota Bride Magazine

The amazing Semple Mansion in Minneapolis, MN - available for rental for weddings!

The amazing Semple Mansion in Minneapolis, MN – available for rental for weddings!

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Gorgeous renovations at the St. Paul College Club

St Paul College Club on gorgeous Summit Ave.

St Paul College Club on gorgeous Summit Avenue
in St. Paul, MN

spccbackyard

The outdoor wedding ceremony space at the St. Paul College Club

spccballroom

Question:

Rev. Coleman,
Good Morning! This is Lauren with the St. Paul College Club. I hope this e-mail finds you well!

Just some news about our wedding reception venue in St. Paul, MN:

  • We have a new event coordinator, Beata Vanderzee.
  • Our Living Room has changed quite a bit in the last few months (we’ve added floor to ceiling curtains, two new chandeliers, new fireplace décor, wood flooring instead of carpet, re-carpeted the staircase, new curtains in the sunroom, etc.).

I think that’s it! Thank you very much – and once again, we cannot express how thrilled we consistently are to have you perform weddings at the St. Paul College Club!

Thank You!

Lauren Wills
St. Paul College Club
651-227-4477
lauren@stpaulcollegeclub.com

Answer:

Good afternoon, Lauren,

Wow, thank you for all the kind words – and all the great new photos and info! Your info and pics have now all been updated on my page about wedding receptions in the Minneapolis, MN area.

Looking forward to many more weddings at your wonderful, well-run, beautiful St. Paul College Club!

Warmly,

Rev. Tomkin

Rev. Tomkin Coleman
Voted 2007′s “Best Wedding Planner” by CitySearch
Voted 2010′s, 2011′s and 2012′s “Best Wedding Officiant” by Minnesota Bride Magazine

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2013 Semple Wedding Fair

Semple Mansion in the winter

Semple Mansion Wedding Fair - This Sunday, March 24th, 2013
12-4pm, 100 W. Franklin Ave., Minneapolis, MN

Wedding Fair at Semple Mansion

Dear Readers: I tell you, one of the best parts of being engaged is going to a wedding fair – free food, people are excited and happy, you get to spend time with your partner (or friend, or mother) in an atmosphere that’s celebratory – how much fun is that? If you’re in the Minneapolis, MN area and are free this Sunday (or even if aren’t free, but can change your plans!), I highly recommend coming to the amazing wedding fair at Semple Mansion this Sunday, March 24th, 2013, noon-4pm. Here’s the deal about wedding fairs – about half the people there will be interested in renting the Semple Mansion, the other half will be brides and grooms who might already have their wedding reception site lined up already, but want to check out photographers, DJs, caterers, or other vendors. So you don’t have to be having your wedding at the place you’re going to the wedding fair – they’re just hosting it.

 

And the Semple Mansion fair is AWESOME! It’s really classy, everyone’s in a good mood, and the most important thing about picking a

Top of the stairs at Semple Mansion

wedding vendor is do you like them personally (after all, you’re going to be spending a lot of time with them). And a wedding fair is a perfect time for this, just a time to chat and get to know people. Or, if you want, just smile, eat, and look at the pretty brochures and flowers and cake displays – it’s all fun!

The FREE Semple Mansion Wedding Fair is Sunday, March 24, 2013, 12:00pm until 4:00pm.

 


Weddings at Semple Mansion

Credit: Bellagala Photography


Multiple shots of a wedding at the Semple Mansion
This Sunday, 3/24/13, from 12-4pm at 100 W. Franklin Avenue in Minneapolis, is the Semple Mansion Wedding Fair. Feel free to visit www.semplemansion.com to find out more.

No charge for admission for this Sunday’s wedding fair, and free parking – you can come and explore all three levels inside the Semple Mansion in Minneapolis, MN and discover many of the best local wedding professionals all under one very impressive roof!

At the wedding fair will be wedding planners, photographers, florists, make-up artists, stationery vendors, caterers, fashion – and more!

Sunday, March 24th, 2013, 12-4pm, Semple Mansion, 100 West Franklin Ave. in Minneapolis!

Rev. Tomkin Coleman
Voted 2007′s “Best Wedding Planner” by CitySearch
Voted 2010′s, 2011′s and 2012′s “Best Wedding Officiant” by Minnesota Bride Magazine

Semple Mansion in Minneapolis

Hope to see you there!

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Carlson Towers for weddings in Minnetonka, MN area

Carlson Towers in Minneapolis, MN

Question:

From Carlson TowersHi, Rev. Tomkin,

How are things? Is your 2013 wedding season going to be busy? I hope so. Looking forward to having you perform more wedding ceremonies here at the Carlson Towers in Minnetonka MN this year!

We love referring couples to you, and it would be great to talk to you again – do you have time to come over and have lunch with us?

Let me know and thank you,

Dawn

Dawn Crawford Dacut │ Carlson Center Event Sales Director │ Bon Appétit Management Company
Phone: 763.212.1448 │ Fax: 763.212.2490 │ E-Mail: dcrawford@carlson.com
Address: 701 Carlson Parkway │ MS# 8240 │ Minnetonka │ MN │ 55305
Website: www.carlsoncenterevents.com
http://www.facebook.com/carlsoncenterevents

Answer:

Dear Dawn,

It was so great to see you, and to meet Kirsten! Wow, you do amazing work at the Carlson Towers and I love it when I get to perform wedding ceremonies in the gorgeous amphitheater. The venue is so gorgeous, and the amazing amphitheater and lake are unique – it’s like an oasis of tranquility, and yet the wedding party and guests are right here in the Twin Cities, with easy access to I-454 and I-394. Thanks so much for lunch, as always, you serve fantastic food! I’m such a foodie, it’s getting that I only really enjoy the really good stuff – and man, your chefs are the best! I love that you’ve created a brand-new menu for brides and that you’re filling up with weddings so quickly. Of course, so many couples want the Saturday weddings, it’s nice that you have special prices for Friday weddings, too! Such a great lunch – the easy, free parking, the friendly staff, the gorgeous venue…here’s a picture of the Carlson Towers in Minnetonka, MN during the winter – such an amazing view! Most of my wedding ceremonies there are in the summer – more couples should get married in winter at the Carlson Towers and get that great view! :-)


Winter at the Carlson Towers

Thanks so much, and I’m looking to many more wedding ceremonies at the Carlson Towers!

Warmly,

Rev. Tomkin

Rev. Tomkin Coleman
Voted 2007′s “Best Wedding Planner” by CitySearch
Voted 2010′s, 2011′s and 2012′s “Best Wedding Officiant” by Minnesota Bride Magazine

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Semple Mansion Wedding Fair – 2013!

Dear Readers,

Getting married this year (or next?) in the Minneapolis, MN area? Here’s a fantastic recommendation!

Semple Mansion Wedding Fair - Sunday, 3/24/13 noon - 4pm

The Semple Mansion Wedding Fair
Sunday, 3/24/13 noon – 4pm – free!
Location: 100 W. Franklin Ave., Minneapolis, MN




I’ve gone every year to the Semple Mansion Wedding Fair in Minneapolis, MN, and just love it – and I think you will, too! The March 24th, 2013 fair will have food, wine, vendors, fun people, incredibly beautiful venue, and just south of downtown Minneapolis, right by Uptown, just east of the Lakes. Semple Mansion puts together amazing events, and you get a great preview by coming to the show. Unlike other wedding events, there’s no admission charge, and it’s not just in a big empty event center – it’s at their gorgeous 19th century mansion. Even if you’re not using the Mansion for your event, it’s fun to visit anyway because of all the vendors – cakes, coffee, music, flowers…it’s really incredible to see all this in person. You can only get so much from pictures on the web, you know? Anyway, the best part of any vendor is when you meet them in person – that’s the way to really know if you want to work with them.

Some of the new rooms the Semple Mansion now has include the Wine Grotto, Billiards Room, and Copper Lounge, which are all on display.


This room is Semple Mansion's "Wine Grotto" - it's an antique walk-in safe that's huge, surrounded by old brickwork (and wine!) Great for cocktail hour after your wedding ceremony.

For instance, this room is Semple Mansion’s “Wine Grotto” – it’s an amazing antique, walk-in safe that’s huge, surrounded by old brickwork (and wine!) Great for cocktail hour after your wedding ceremony.

One of my favorite caterers in Minneapolis, Fabulous Catering, is sure to be there, with lots of samples! MAN, are they good!

One of my favorite caterers in Minneapolis, Fabulous Catering, is sure to be at the Semple Mansion wedding fair, with lots of samples! MAN, are they good!
There’s wedding caterers on both the second and the top floor (the top floor is where the gorgeous ballroom is, where the wedding receptions are held).

That's me with one of the vendors, Gateaux Bakery, from one of the previous events - I tell you, you've got to check out this wedding fair - it's incredible to see all this work close-up!

That’s me with one of the vendors, Gateaux Bakery, from a couple years ago – I tell you, you’ve got to check out this wedding fair at the Semple Mansion- it’s incredible to see all this beautiful work close-up!



Everyone having a good time at last year's event. This year promises to be event better, with more vendors and more spaces open!

Everyone having a good time at last year’s event. This year promises to be event better, with more vendors and more spaces open!


If you have never seen this breathtaking venue before, and want to talk to vendors one-on-one, come check it out in a relaxed, yet classy atmosphere!

If you have never seen this breathtaking venue before, and want to talk to vendors one-on-one, come check out the Semple Mansion Wedding Fair in a relaxed, yet classy atmosphere!


Again, the date for the 2013 Semple Mansion wedding fair is:
- Sunday, March 24th, 2013
- From 12:00 noon – 4pm
- At the Semple Mansion
- 100 W. Franklin Ave., Minneapolis, MN.
- Free admission and free parking!

Hope to see you there!

Rev. Tomkin Coleman
Voted 2007′s “Best Wedding Planner” by CitySearch
Voted 2010′s, 2011′s and 2012′s “Best Wedding Officiant” by Minnesota Bride Magazine

PS: Here's one of their new rooms - the bridal suite on the top floor, available to the bride and her attendants to get ready before a wedding ceremony!

PS: Here’s one of their new rooms – the Semple Mansion’s bridal suite on the top floor, available to the bride and bridal attendants to get ready before a wedding ceremony!


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Graves 601 Hotel for Weddings

New! Just published an amazing review of the Graves 601 Hotel in Minneapolis, MN, and how it can be used for wedding ceremonies and/or wedding receptions.


Wedding at Graves 601 Hotel

At a wedding ceremony I performed at the Graves 601 Hotel in downtown Minneapolis in their main ballroom. The cocktail hour was in the adjoining lobby, with dinner back in this room. Gorgeous, classy wedding!



Perhaps my favorite place for a wedding ceremony and reception is at a hotel – all the wedding guests get to hang out together all weekend, and no one has to travel the ceremony site, and there’s no commuting between the ceremony and reception. A wedding is all about the people, and when it’s at a hotel, everyone gets to be with each other whenever they want. I was so lucky to get a tour of the amazing Graves 601 Hotel in downtown Minneapolis, which is on First Avenue, right across the street from the Target Center. Click on my weddings at Minneapolis hotels page for the full review.

Outside the Graves 601, a new, modern, and hip hotel in the heart of downtown Minneapolis, MN

Outside the Graves 601, a new, modern, and hip hotel in the heart of downtown Minneapolis, MN

 

Another shot of the exterior of the Graves 601 Hotel, from Bellagala Photography, www.bellagala.com

Another shot of the exterior of the Graves 601 Hotel, from Bellagala Photography, www.bellagala.com



How to describe the Graves 601 Hotel? Well, first of all, everything is high-class and top-notch…the staff there is incredible, and the site is beautiful. Check out these pictures to help get an idea of the gorgeous stylishness:

One of the amazing sculptures in the Graves 601's gorgeous lobbys.

One of the amazing sculptures in the Graves 601′s gorgeous lobbys.

Graves 601 wedding

The gorgeous ballroom of the Graves 601 Hotel, all lit up by the Instant Request DJ service. Photo from Instant Request – http://www.instantrequest.com

 

The Graves 601 Hotel is home to what many foodies (including myself) think is the best restaurant in Minneapolis - Cosmos Restaurant

The Graves 601 Hotel is home to what many foodies (including myself) think is the best restaurant in Minneapolis – Cosmos Restaurant

Also at the Graves 601 Hotel is the amazing bar and restaurant, the Craftstreet Bradhouse. Either Cosmos or the Craftstreet Bradhouse are wonderful places for a rehearsal dinner.

Also at the Graves 601 Hotel is the amazing bar and restaurant, the Craftstreet Bradhouse. Either Cosmos or the Craftstreet Bradhouse are wonderful places for a rehearsal dinner.



If you’re looking for a high-end wedding venue in Minneapolis, Minnesota, one that can handle either a small wedding or a large one, a site that will pamper your guests and make everything go smoothly on your big day, a venue that can house your guests all weekend in a place that’s gorgeous, modern, and hip, my first recommendation would be the Graves 601 Hotel for your wedding!

Rev. Tomkin Coleman
Voted 2007′s “Best Wedding Planner” by CitySearch
Voted 2010′s, 2011′s and 2012′s “Best Wedding Officiant” by Minnesota Bride Magazine

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McNamara Wedding Showcase was AMAZING!

Photos courtesy of D'Amico Catering and la Vie Photography - laviephotography.com

The 2013 Wedding Showcase at the McNamara Event Center in Minneapolis, MN, by the U of M.
Photos courtesy of D’Amico Catering and la Vie Photography – laviephotography.com


What a fun night! The annual wedding fair at the McNamara Center is my favorite – it’s set in this gorgeous site, the food is amazing, and there’s a real sense of celebration and fun. The McNamara Event Center is unique in the Twin Cities because of the coordinators – they really help out the brides and grooms they work with to make sure everything goes smoothly. (Usually a reception site has just one coordinator, who is the catering manager). Their wedding fair takes so much prep, and it really shows – all the little details are taken care of with perfection, and it becomes so classy and fun. I’ve performed many wedding ceremonies there, both in the big room and in one of the smaller rooms, and couples love it. The place is beautiful enough that it doesn’t need decoration (although it looks great decorated, too), and then the cocktail hour and wedding reception is held there, too.

Some of the fantastic food at the McNamara Wedding Showcase by award-winning D'Amico

Some of the fantastic food at the McNamara Wedding Showcase by award-winning D’Amico


I’m a huge foodie, and LOVE D’Amico – one way to tell how great they are even before you taste their food is knowing about all the chefs and D’Amico itself who have been nominated for James Beard awards…not to mention all the MN Bride and MN Meetings and Events Magazine awards that both D’Amico and the McNamara Center have won.

D'Amico kind of blew my mind - they are fantastic chefs!

D’Amico kind of blew my mind – they are fantastic chefs!

Dance lessons - isn't that cool?

Dance lessons – isn’t that cool?

And that's me! Rev. Tomkin, taking a break to chat up the chefs and sample the food (oh, man...I loved it!)

And that’s me! Rev. Tomkin, taking a break to chat up the chefs and sample the food (oh, man…I loved it!)

Ooh, I love it that they got a pic of me, too! I was chatting with the chef here, and between this one and several others I learned about their salted-caramel chocolates (with glitter…wow!), and about the proper temperature for roast beef and lamb (oh, man…men love good meat!), and one chef let me bring home two of the above chocolates to my wife. She loved, loved, loved them both!

Isn't the McNamara Center gorgeous?

Isn’t the McNamara Center gorgeous?

One of the wedding ceremony spaces at the McNamara

One of the wedding ceremony spaces at the McNamara

The amazing wedding coordinators at the McNamara Event Center!

Amy Leyden and the amazing wedding coordinators at the McNamara Event Center!

When the McNamara does weddings, sometimes they set up this amazing tulle...

When the McNamara does weddings, sometimes they set up this amazing tulle…

This is the big space, and one of the smaller rooms is above – you can choose either one, but their both gorgeous. Some couples have their wedding ceremony at a church and then have the reception here, but the weddings I’ve been involved with all had both the ceremony and reception at the McNamara (which was quite nice, because then their guests didn’t have to travel between the ceremony and reception). Note that there’s a tunnel that goes directly to the hotel next door…one of my favorite things about this site!

Looking forward to seeing you there next year! (The McNamara Wedding Showcase is always in early January.)

Rev. Tomkin Coleman
Voted 2007′s “Best Wedding Planner” by CitySearch
Voted 2010′s, 2011′s and 2012′s “Best Wedding Officiant” by Minnesota Bride Magazine

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My favorite Minneapolis wedding fair!



2013 McNamara Alumni Center’s Wedding Showcase
Wednesday evening, January 9th, 2013
From 5:30 till 8:00 pm



Getting married in 2013? Well, in addition to buying lots of wedding magazines, or watching “Bridesmaids”, or getting together with girlfriends, one of the most fun parts of being engaged is going to a bridal fair. My favorite one in the Minneapolis MN area is the Bridal Showcase at the McNamara Alumni Center in the University of Minnesota area. It’s a gorgeous site, with angled walls and windows, plus many extra beautiful rooms for cocktail hours, wedding receptions, or wedding ceremonies. I’ve performed wedding ceremonies in all the spaces, and been to many of the annual shows, and they’re amazing – the food is incredible, the vendors are so much fun.

The McNamara Center in Minneapolis is unique in that the venue has many “wedding coordinators”, staff who really make your wedding weekend go smoothly and easily. Having an assigned coordinator to work with you throughout the planning process is a really big deal, and they’ve done so many weddings that they really know what they’re doing. And you also are assigned a coordinator from D’Amico Catering to take care of things related to food and beverages. These 2 wedding coordinators focus on you and your unique needs. Amy Leyden is the head of the department, and she really sets the tone – classy, friendly, warm, and incredibly knowledgeable. So not only is the site really beautiful, the whole weekend goes smoothly as a result of their care and attention.


Wedding ceremonies and receptions aren’t just held in the large main room – the McNamara Alumni Center has some wonderful, more intimate spaces, too!


Ooh, I almost forgot – the Radisson hotel next door is connected via a tunnel with the McNamara, and thus you wedding guests can stay there and socialize the weekend of your wedding.



The McNamara’s Wedding Showcase in Minnepolis, MN is held on a Wednesday evening, January 9th, 2013, from 5:30 till 8:00 pm. The address is 200 Oak Street SE in Minneapolis, MN, but you may want to use the address of their parking garage, which is 1926 University Ave. SE, Minneapolis, MN. Here’s a downloadable map, if that helps.

Looking forward to seeing you there!

Rev. Tomkin
Voted 2007′s “Best Wedding Planner” by CitySearch
Voted 2010′s, 2011′s and 2012′s “Best Wedding Officiant” by Minnesota Bride Magazine

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Video of Rev. Tomkin Coleman performing a wedding ceremony

Question:

Hi Rev. Tomkin,

At the recent wedding where we worked together, I promised to provide you a copy of the wedding video. This YouTube video is the full ceremony unedited, and a nice clip of it is here.

Looking forward to working with you again!

Thanks,
Craig Julliie
MN Videography
Memories in High Definition

Answer:

Good afternoon, Craig,

Wow, thank you for sharing this video! You do amazing work. It’s funny, I tell couples that while a wedding video seems like such an easy thing to cut out because of budget concerns, it’s rather ironic, because a good wedding video is THE BEST memory you can possibly have of the big day! Once everyone has gone home and you continue your daily life, there’s some still pictures, but wow, there’s nothing like video to really bring the memories back full-force. Most often for the bride and groom, the whole day is just a happy blur, but with a wedding video, you actually get a sense of what the ceremony was like, what the cocktail hour, and dinner, and toasts, and dancing was like…how the guests felt, who was there, everything. I highly recommend your Minnesota wedding videography work – you do an amazing job!

Warmly,

Rev. Tomkin

Rev. Tomkin Coleman
Voted 2007′s “Best Wedding Planner” by CitySearch
Voted 2010′s, 2011′s and 2012′s “Best Wedding Officiant” by Minnesota Bride Magazine

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TreVeld Musicians for Weddings in MN


Here’s the TreVeld wedding trio, getting ready for the wedding ceremony I performed two weekends ago at the Nicollet Island Pavilion – they’re terrific!


For a funky, fun sound at your MN wedding - TreVeld
TreVeld Wedding Musicians in Minneapolis, MN



The amazing TreVeld trio – here, they’re playing at a church, but I heard them at a wedding…wow!!!

Wow, I have to let you know all about this amazing band who played at a wedding I just performed a ceremony for, at the Nicollet Island Pavilion – the amazing TreVeld trio of violin, bass, and guitar. They were fun, lively, and had incredible music – how to describe them, though? It’s funny, my world is words, not music, but this band really got to me, and I don’t even have the right words to describe them! Jazzy? Well, no, it wasn’t jazz like Coltrane… Funky? Well, no, it wasn’t like Prince… Their music gave me the feelings that a bluegrass or Dixieland band gives me (fun, exciting, celebrational), yet they weren’t those genres, either! The name “TreVeld” comes from “three” and “fields” (veld?), which seems to be not just the blending of the three musicians, but at least three genres of music. “Spirited” – perhaps that’s the best way to describe their wonderful music?

The best way to get to know the TreVeld musicians is to just listen to them here – I bet you’ll love them as much as I did! It’s not your usual string trio, and if you are looking for something top-notch, A+, and non-traditional, they’re perfect for high-class weddings, funk weddings, and everything in between – I’m a huge fan!

Wedding musician trio, TreVeld

Check out their Facebook page, too – it’s quite fun!

Rev. Tomkin Coleman
Voted 2007′s “Best Wedding Planner” by CitySearch
Voted 2010′s, 2011′s and 2012′s “Best Wedding Officiant” by Minnesota Bride Magazine

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Cosmos in Minneapolis

Cosmos Restaurant

Cosmos in Minneapolis – Photo by Tom Wallace at VitaMN – Tom Wallace also does wedding photography, and his website is http://www.tomwallacephotography.com



Wow – Cosmos in Minneapolis, MN, in the Graves 601 Hotel at 601 North 1st Avenue, is absolutely amazing. The restaurant is an upper floor at the upscale Graves 601 Hotel on 1st Avenue in downtown Minneapolis.

I first heard of Cosmos when I was taking a cooking class in Calhoun Square, and I asked the chef teaching us what his favorite restaurant in the Twin Cities was. He told me of a restaurant I hadn’t heard of, Cosmos in downtown Minneapolis at the Graves 601 Hotel – and I’ve been dying to go ever since (and kept hearing about the restaurant over and over again after that!)

The first thing we noticed? Free valet parking for Cosmo’s patrons, which is usually $15 at the hotel…makes you feel like a big-shot, and it lets my wife wear her “restaurant shoes”!

What a great night – I used to have a different restaurant as my favorite in the Twin Cities, but chefs John Occhiato and Khanh Tran at Cosmos in Minneapolis now win the gold for me. The food is incredible (including dessert), the place is gorgeous, and the service outstanding (and finding good service is difficult – and a good waiter and busboy really helps the meal!) The restaurant itself is gorgeous, very hip and and contemporary, but it doesn’t put on airs – they make you feel really comfortable. It’s easy to feel a bit out of it when going to a fancy restaurant, but Cosmos in Minneapolis, well, I’d love to go to it every week! They made us feel very special. I always repeat what Oprah says, it’s not what you say or even do, it’s how you make a person feel. And that feeling – that you’re important, and welcome, and they’re pleased to see you – that’s a huge deal. What a great restaurant.


Tomkin with amuse bouche

And the food – wow! They started us out with a free amuse-bouche, just a little bite-sized treat to whet the appetite (lovely!) and Julie got this fantastic drink (below). I love appetizers, and we got this special one, which was several kinds of mushrooms that grow in the wild and that were foraged right here in Minnesota. Julie isn’t a fan of mushrooms, but wow, she loved these! Probably the only time she’ll ever love mushrooms. Served on toast…outstanding. I love the idea of fresh local ingredients, but wow, foraging – I’ve never seen that on a menu, and I loved it. It’s fun reading in magazines about all the new ways today’s new chefs prepare food (like foraging), and at Cosmos in Minneapolis, I finally got to actually try it – and loved it!

Julie's amazing drink at Cosmos Minneapolis

 With the bread - who knew how good it could be?


It’s funny, the bread that came with dinner…I could have eaten a whole meal of it. I’m really picky about bread at dinner, and usually in restaurants it’s pretty good, but nothing like this – warm from the oven, soft and also crunchy…just perfect, really! Talking about bread this much – well, we’re going to Paris in a few months, and I’m really curious to taste their bread over and over, and now I feel like I have something I can really compare it to, something that the best restaurant in Minneapolis has to offer.

Julie with the porkchop at Cosmos Minneapolis

We then ordered the scallops, and the pork, for our entrees…woah, every single bite was amazing.  I love a good protein, but wow, when they make it with the perfect sauces and veggies to go with it, and it really enhances the experience. It was one of the few times where I liked the entrees as much as the appetizers (usually the appetizers are so tasty that they blow everything away), but here was a time where I loved both entrees, too (thanks to the waiter who recommended the scallops!) It’s fun ordering things like scallops and pork that I make at home, and seeing how a really great chef take ingredients that are better than I get at the super-market, and then prepare them perfectly, and then pair them with sides that enhance the food – it’s not only inspiring to me as a cook, it makes me want to try the other dishes!


Dessert at Cosmos Restaurant

With the amazing dessert


And finally, the two fantastic desserts – the first one was ice cream wrapped in chocolate, and when the waiter poured hot fudge over it, the chocolate melted and showed us the ice cream. I loved it! While the term “molecular gastronomy” is a bit of a misnomer, (perhaps it should be called “avant garde cuisine”?), having a dessert that actually DID something was pretty spectacular, and then the second dessert, wow – I didn’t even know I liked panna cotta that much, but with this crazy cracker, and citrus “bubbles” (aka foam), it blew me away. This panna cotta dish was literally the best dessert I’ve EVER had, hands down! How could a non-chocolate dessert be this good? As Ferran Adria says in his biography, “Ferran”, it’s not about technique or anything else – it’s about the FOOD, the ingredients, the taste – finding ways to really taste the essence of the ingredients, sometimes by making you think of it in a different way, sometimes by highlighting different elements…Cosmos in Minneapolis has really got it. Simple but elegant, fun, beautiful, a meal that I thought about for days and days afterwards – what a great way to make an occasion special!

Oh, and afterwards? They brought us out two little chocolates – a sweet and thoughtful gesture, making us feel important and valued and that we made the right choice in Cosmos in Minneapolis!

Book a reservation by calling (612) 312-1168 or using this link through Open Table.

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Minnesota wedding photographer recommendations

Photo by the amazing Laurie Schneider – www.lschneider.com


Question:

Hello Rev. Tomkin!

I know you’ve heard this many times but I’m going to say it too that I ABSOLUTELY love your site. I’ve thus far found it very useful and will continue to find it useful until (and hopefully not on) my wedding day.

I got engaged only a couple of weeks ago but, as a researcher, I started doing some researching. What are your thoughts are hiring a student photographer? I saw some of the prices of professional photographers and that’s definitely out of our budget! Would greatly appreciate your advice and recommendations!

Thanks,

Minnesota Bride Needs a Wedding Photographer

Answer:

Good morning, MBNWP,

Congratulations on your upcoming wedding! (And thank you for your wonderful words!)

My thoughts are that a student photographer is fine if they’ve done 25 weddings. If they haven’t done 25 weddings…well, then you’re taking a chance, and thus, they should compensate by making themselves MUCH cheaper. So, you’re paying less money, but you are taking a chance. Does that make sense?

Some more thoughts:

Just FYI, the usual prices for a wedding photographer with 25 weddings under their belt (the reasons for the prices are then listed below):

  • $1,000. Minimum. OK photos.
  • $2,500. Usual price. Quite good photos.
  • $4,000. Pricier. Really great photos.

What you’ll get:

  • Photos
  • They’ll shoot about 1,000 photos on your wedding day.
  • You should get your first round of proofs in 2 months (about 400 basic edited images).
  • You’ll then pick the ones you want (maybe 50, which they’ll then Photoshop so they’re perfect…about 45 minutes per image!)
  • Best practice: You get the rights to the images (so can print them yourself).
  • Best practice: They post the images online (so you don’t have to email everyone all sorts of photos).

Wedding album

  • One option is to do it yourself.
  • Best practice: Have your photographer create the album.
  • Note that the wholesale price they’ll pay for a good album (just the empty album) is $300 (it’s a really nice album, and usually not available to non-professionals), which is one reason why albums are so expensive.
  • Perhaps 20 pages, 50 photos, all Photoshopped and perfect.

How many wedding photographers?

  • Usually one photographer can do the whole job.
  • However, some will have an assistant, to help with memory cards, setup, etc., or even shoot extra photos (not needed, but some do it).

Hours they’ll spend on your wedding (whether a student or a professional wedding photographer):

  • 3 hours preparation
  • 4-10 hours on your wedding day
  • 35 hours post-processing.
  • 45 minutes will be spent Photoshopping each of your 50 final photos.
  • Total hours your photographer will spend on your wedding (shooting, processing, etc.): 40+

Hours you’ll hire photographer on wedding day:

  • 4 hours minimum, usually
  • 10 hours = all day

Equipment needed (whether a student or a professional):

  • Bare minimum: 2 camera bodies ($3,000), 2 f2.8 zoom lenses ($2,000), 2 flashes, memory backup. A professional will have a whole lot more than this, but even a student should have this bare minimum if they’re going to do a wedding.
  • Thus your wedding photographer, whether a student or a professional, will have spent $6,000-$8,000 on equipment, as a bare minimum. (If they don’t have these things, do NOT hire them…they could do it for free, but they should NOT be hired for any money if they don’t have the right camera and equipment). Note that if they’re a student and not a professional, they won’t have to also spend money on online photo hosting, albums, and advertising, though.

I hope the above is helpful!

Warm regards,

Rev. Tomkin

Rev. Tomkin Coleman
Voted 2010′s, 2011′s and 2012′s “Best Wedding Officiant” by Minnesota Bride Magazine

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Wedding Singer Mary Pat Nydahl

Millenium Gardens in Plymouth, MN

Millenium Gardens in Plymouth, MN for wedding ceremonies and receptions


Millenium Garden at the Plymouth Creek Center

Millenium Garden at the Plymouth Creek Center

Mary Pat Nydahl

Mary Pat Nydahl, wedding singer in the Minneapolis, MN area


Question:

Good Morning, Rev. Tomkin,
It was a pleasure meeting you at Saturday’s wedding at Plymouth’s Millenium Garden. What a beautiful day for a beautiful wedding! It was a pleasure providing the wedding sining with wedding pianist Sharon Planer. Like I told you, I often perform with Sharon when my pianist/organist, Tom Weeklund, is not available.

As we talked about, our website for wedding music in the Twin Cities, MN area is Music Ministry Plus, and we’re based in Burnsville, MN, but perform all around town. Your brides/grooms can listen online to 30 seconds of each of my songs from four published albums, so they know what I sound like.

Thanks so much! I look forward to working with you again soon!

Mary Pat

Mary Pat Nydahl
Music Ministry Plus
Cell: (952) 239-4420
Direct: (952) 562-2364

Answer:

Dear Mary Pat,

It was so wonderful to meet you, and getting to hear you sing with Sharon! Your singing was amazing, and added so much to their wedding ceremony – I hope to hear you again and again!

Warmly,

Rev. Tomkin

Rev. Tomkin Coleman
Voted 2007′s “Best Wedding Planner” by CitySearch
Voted 2010′s, 2011′s and 2012′s “Best Wedding Officiant” by Minnesota Bride Magazine

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Hope Glen Farm in Cottage Grove, MN for wedding receptions and ceremonies

Hope Glen Farm in Cottage Grove, MN for weddings

Wedding receptions and ceremonies at the historic Hope Glen Farm in Cottage Grove, MN


Hope Glen Farm

Photo by Bella La Vida Photography


Photo by Paul Skie at CaptureMinnesota.com


Question:
Good afternoon, Rev. Tomkin,

I hope your summer is going well! In past years, we have enjoyed having you officiate wedding ceremonies at historic Hope Glen Farm in Cottage Grove, MN, and wanted to let you know that the farm is now available again for weddings, retreats, events of all kinds. So pass the word Hope Glen Farm is now available for renting of the land and barn for events!

The barn at Hope Glen Farm in Cottage Grove, Minnesota is heated and air conditioned so it can be used all year long for:
• weddings
• receptions
• barn dances
• corporate events
• retreats
• anniversaries
• graduations
• reunions
• study groups
• youth events
• church
• prayer vigils
• concerts
• talent show
• dinners
• festivals
• parties
• get together’s
• Alpha retreat
• craft show

Call us for rates and availability at 612-202-2886 or 651-459-4220.

Blessings
Michael and Paula
Hope Glen Farm
10276 E Point Douglas Rd., S.
Cottage Grove, MN
hopeglenfarm@aol.com

Answer:

Dear Michael and Paula,

Absolutely! You have a wonderful site for weddings, and couples are going to be so pleased you’re renting out the farm again!

Readers: A great review is at WeddingWire.

Best regards,

Rev. Tomkin

Rev. Tomkin Coleman
Voted 2007′s “Best Wedding Planner” by CitySearch
Voted 2010′s, 2011′s and 2012′s “Best Wedding Officiant” by Minnesota Bride Magazine

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Weddings at the MIA (Minneapolis Institute of Arts)

Wedding at the Minneapolis Institute of Arts

Wedding at the Minneapolis Institute of Arts, courtesy of Benjamin Keller Photography. Photos can be taken at the museum (with a permit that helps cover security costs), and then your wedding ceremony and reception can be held in the gorgeous new Target Wing


Minneapolis Institute of Arts - MIA - wedding

Wedding photos can even be taken inside the MIA (with a permit)


MIA wedding

Part of the amazing outdoor wedding spaces in the Target Park at the Minneapolis Institute of Arts


Question:

Hello, Rev. Tomkin,

I love your information about weddings at museums in Minneapolis! At the Minneapolis Institute of Arts, we have recently started hosting wedding ceremonies and receptions. Would you like a personalized tour of our wedding ceremony and reception spaces at the MIA?

Thanks and I hope to hear from you in the future!

Jessa Barron | Event Sales Manager
Minneapolis Institute of Arts
2400 Third Avenue South
Minneapolis, MN 55404
612-870-3289 Fax: 612-870-3004
jbarron@artsmia.org

Answer:

Good afternoon, Jessa,

Such a wonderful email to get – thank you for the information, and for the invitation – you’ve made my day! (Readers, the information is now up at running!).

Warmly,

Rev. Tomkin Coleman
Voted 2007′s “Best Wedding Planner” by CitySearch
Voted 2010′s and 2011′s “Best Wedding Officiant” by Minnesota Bride Magazine

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Bridal shop for plus-size brides in Minneapolis

Plus Size Wedding Dresses at Luxe in Minneapolis


Luxe Bridal in Minneapolis

Question:

Dear Rev. Tomkin,

Thank you for your amazing resources on your website! Can you help me with a problem? Where is there a place where I can buy a wedding dress if I’m fat? Or plus-size, or chubby, or whatever you’d like to call it, there is NOWHERE I can find that will help me get a size 20 wedding dress! It’s incredibly frustrating. Is there a bridal shop or wedding dress store in the Minneapolis, MN area that can help me out?

Searching in St. Paul

The wonderful people at Luxe Bridal Couture in Minneapolis, MN

Answer:

Dear SISP,

It’s crazy that this is even an issue – I would have thought all dress shops should carry dresses in all sizes (silly me!) I’m sorry you had to go through all that!

Good news - I just met the most amazing group of women at the Minnesota Bridal Awards last week – Luxe Bridal Couture, who are the only plus-size wedding dress shop in all of Minnesota. They’re at 2401 Dupont Avenue S. in South Minneapolis, and they are the sweetest, most wonderful people. Their website is amazing, as is their blog. Here’s a great article about Luxe Bridal in the Star Tribune and another in Minneapolis St Paul Magazine. I’ve definitely met all of them in person, and they are incredibly nice (and really well dressed, which is a great sign for their good taste!) Such a terrific service they provide – I bet you’ll love them, and they’ll be great at finding you a wedding dress!

I hope this helps!

Warmly,

Rev. Tomkin

Rev. Tomkin Coleman
Voted 2007′s “Best Wedding Planner” by CitySearch
Voted 2010′s, 2011′s and 2012′s “Best Wedding Officiant” by Minnesota Bride Magazine

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Congrats, Rev. Tomkin!

Diane Martinson, Extraordinary Wedding Singer in MN

Diane Martinson, Extraordinary Wedding Singer in MN


Question:

Dear Rev. Tomkin,

Congratulations on your Minnesota Bride Best of 2012 win! It’s always a pleasure singing in a wonderful wedding that you are officiating. I know couples get the very best ceremony if you are their wedding minister, and now you have another award to prove it.

All the best to you,

Diane

Diane Martinson / Special Events Vocalist
Diane Martinson Music, Inc
Live Music For Special Occasions
Diane@dianemusic.com
PH: 952.920.3064 FAX 952-920-8739
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Answer:

Dear Diane,

Wow, thank you so much! I LOVE working with you, too, not only because you’re amazing to work with, but also, because then I get to hear you sing again!

Looking forward to working with you many more times!

Warmly,

Rev. Tomkin

Rev. Tomkin Coleman
Voted 2007′s “Best Wedding Planner” by CitySearch
Voted 2010′s, 2011′s and 2012′s “Best Wedding Officiant” by Minnesota Bride Magazine

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Congrats on Best Wedding Officiant in MN!

Bride Support Wedding Coordinator in Minneapolis, MN

Question:

Rev. Coleman,
Just wanted to send a quick note to say CONGRATS on your award last night! What a testament to your service that you’ve won this award.

Can’t wait to work with you again. Hope you’re having a great (and busy – in a good way!) summer!

Happy Thursday.



Meredith Meyer

Answer:

Dear Meredith,

Ooh, thank you so much!

Wow, your email just made my day. Who writes to congratulate someone like that? THANK YOU!!! You’re such a great coordinator – and such a great person!

Looking forward to working with you many, many more times!

Warmly,

Rev. Tomkin

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Simply Elegant Facebook Giveaway

Simply Elegant Bridal Consulting

Simply Elegant Bridal Consulting and Adagio DJ in Minneapolis, MN


Simply Elegant in MN

Question:

Hi, Rev. Tomkin,

I hope your summer is going well! On Sunday, 6/15/12, we at Simply Elegant Bridal Consulting in Minneapolis are launching a 1-month giveaway where Brides who “Like” Simply Elegant Bridal Consulting on Facebook AND “Like” Adagio DJ on Facebook will be entered for a drawing. One winner will receive a Day of Coordination package & a $1,300 DJ package from Adagio.

I hope your Vacation is great!!

Cheers!

Maybe we’ll see you tomorrow at the MN Bride Awards?!

Britty Glenn
Simply Elegant Bridal Consulting
Lead Planner
Simply Semple Director
612-239-2602

Answer:

Good afternoon, Britty,

Ooh, I love working with Simply Elegant, and I’d love to tell all my readers about your contest! Great idea!

Warmly,

Rev. Tomkin

Rev. Tomkin Coleman
Voted 2007′s “Best Wedding Planner” by CitySearch
Voted 2010′s, 2011′s and 2012′s “Best Wedding Officiant” by Minnesota Bride Magazine

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BLVD Kitchen in Minnetonka for a rehearsal dinner

BLVD Restaurant in Minnetonka, MN
Interior of the BLVD Kitchen and Bar in Minnetonka, MN

Question:

Good Afternoon, Rev. Tomkin,

I hope your day is going well! When I searched for “Rehearsal Dinner Restaurants Minneapolis“, your website was #3. That is good news for you. The bad news for me is that you did not have the Private Dining Room at The BLVD Kitchen and Bar in Minnetonka listed!

Patio at the BLVD bar

We have an amazing setting for rehearsal dinners that includes a private patio. I would enjoy showing it to you at your convenience. Thank you for your time!

Sincerely,

Sarah Eingenmann
BLVD Kitchen
11544 Wayzata Boulevard
Minnetonka, MN 55305
(763) 398-3200

Answer:

Good afternoon, Sarah,

So good to hear from you! I love to support local businesses, and I’ll put your info up right away. The next time I’m out in your area, I’ll drop you a line, and I’d love to get a tour!

Warm regards,

Rev. Tomkin

Rev. Tomkin Coleman
Voted 2007′s “Best Wedding Planner” by CitySearch
Voted 2010′s and 2011′s “Best Wedding Officiant” by Minnesota Bride Magazine

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FIVE Event Center in Minneapolis – review

 

Question:

Hello, Rev. Tomkin,

I hope this message finds you well. We recently received another wedding inquiry directed from your review of FIVE Event Center in Minneapolis on your page about gorgeous wedding locations in Minneapolis. Thank you and thanks for this, and all the other great referrals over the years, we REALLY appreciate it!

Sincerely,

Lesley Decker
Event Manager
FIVE Event Center
612.827.5555 p
612.822.9439 f
Office hours: Monday-Thursday 9am-5pm, Friday 9am-Noon

Answer:

Good afternoon, Lesley,

Wow, you’re so very welcome! I love the FIVE Event Center!

Warm regards,

Rev. Tomkin

Rev. Tomkin Coleman
Voted 2007′s “Best Wedding Planner” by CitySearch
Voted 2010′s and 2011′s “Best Wedding Officiant” by Minnesota Bride Magazine

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Unity Candle Recommendation for Outdoor Weddings

Hurricane set for unity candle ceremony in the wind

Question:

Dear Rev. Tomkin,

I’d like use Unity Candle ceremony in our outdoor wedding, if possible. I saw your blog post on Unity Candles at outdoor wedding ceremonies. I’m wondering what you recommend for a whole set, though, that we could get and what you have seen that works the best in outdoor ceremonies. Do you have any suggestions for a unity candle ceremony outdoors, where we could buy the whole set?

Thanks!

Outdoor Bride

Answer:

Good evening, OB,

Sure! Here’s a great set for an outdoor Unity Candle wedding ceremony. It’s always a little tricky with candles outside, but this set is the best.

I hope this helps!

Warmly,

Rev. Tomkin

Rev. Tomkin Coleman
Voted 2007′s “Best Wedding Planner” by CitySearch
Voted 2010′s and 2011′s “Best Wedding Officiant” by Minnesota Bride Magazine

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Live Streaming For Weddings

Live streaming for wedding ceremonies

Live streaming for wedding ceremonies

Live streaming

Question (from phone conversation):

Reverend Coleman,

Nice talking to you, Reverend Coleman! As we talked about, Your Host Streaming provides Live Streaming services for churches, and with so many elderly and out-of-state wedding guests, Live Streaming can be a great way of having guests watch the wedding ceremony real-time, blessing them with their presence. Thank you very much for your referrals to some local churches, and I hope that you’ll be performing some wedding ceremonies where our live streaming will help guests witness your couples’ wedding vows!

Sincerely,

Eric Kirkhuff / Technical Sales
YourHost.com / YourStreamingHost.com
Eric@YourHost.com
714 842-8511 x/ 115
Cell – 714-329-4860
SKYPE – YourHost1
Skype number 714 594-7482
Yahoo – EricInTheOffice

Answer:

Good afternoon, Eric,

Glad I could help! I wish you the very best with your wonderful service you offer!

Best regards,

Rev. Tomkin

Rev. Tomkin Coleman
Voted 2007′s “Best Wedding Planner” by CitySearch
Voted 2010′s and 2011′s “Best Wedding Officiant” by Minnesota Bride Magazine

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Wedding violinist in Minnesota

Wedding violin in Minneapolis, MN

Wedding violinist in Minnesota, Alexandra Early


Hello Rev Coleman,

I wrote to you a while ago thanking you for maintaining this wonderful resource for MN brides, including your wonderful list of wedding musicians in the Minneapolis, MN area. As it turns out, thanks to your review of Twin Cities wedding venues, I am definitely getting married at the Summit Ave University Club this July! Yay!

I wanted to touch base with you about my violin services for wedding ceremonies in MN. My fiance and I are both professional musicians (I’m a violinist, he’s a bass trombonist). We are moving to the Twin Cities this June when we complete our three-year fellowships with the New World Symphony in Miami, FL. I am a St. Paul, MN native and am very excited about the prospect of moving back to the Cities! In preparation for the big move, I’m reaching out to experienced wedding/event professionals like you in the hopes of building professional relationships.

I have studied the violin for 20 years (I have both a bachelors and masters degree in violin performance) and have many years of experience in the wedding industry. I’ve been playing in weddings and events since 2001 and also owned and managed a wedding/event string quartet LLC from 2007-2009 during my time at the Cleveland Institute of music.

Again, thank you for providing such a wonderful resource for MN brides.

Thank you for your time!

Alex Early
AlexandraEarly.com

Answer:

Good morning, Alexandra,

Wow, so good to hear from you! That’s wonderful that you are getting married at the University Club (you’ll love it). And congratulations!

And yes, I’d LOVE to promote you! I’m a huge supporter of the arts, and it would be wonderful to promote such a talented and experienced violinist.

Best wishes on your careers, and I hope to be working with you both soon!

Warmly,

Rev. Tomkin

Rev. Tomkin Coleman
Voted 2007′s “Best Wedding Planner” by CitySearch
Voted 2010′s and 2011′s “Best Wedding Officiant” by Minnesota Bride Magazine

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Wedding farm in Medina, MN

Skyrock Farm

Skyrock Farm in Medina, MN, available for wedding ceremonies and receptions


Skyrock Carousel

The ballroom at Skyrock Farm, home of the Skyrock Carousel


Skyrock Carousel

Skyrock Carousel


Plus - absolutely gorgeous horses!



Question:

Dear Rev. Coleman

Hi, my name is Stacy. Bill Nunn and I own Skyrock Farm in Medina, MN. We offer a very unique and private wedding venue at our farm and carousel.

Our wedding rental and reception fee is $1200.00. We do not do the catering ourselves and we are open to any caterer the guest would like to use. Note that little ones can ride the carousel and pet the horses if they would like.

We can accommodate up to 200 people – and we have a full kitchen that is open to the caterer of choice.

On another note – I really enjoyed reading your “about me” page. It is so refreshing to hear about your view on respecting all spirituality! Thank you for that. :)

Thank you for your help! Hope to hear from you,
Stacy Olsen
Skyrock Farm
763-742-8055

Answer:

Dear Stacy,

Wow, what a fantastic wedding venue! A gorgeous farm, a historic carousel – such a charming and beautiful place you have! Yes, I’d love to tell readers about your amazing wedding farm and venue in Medina, Minnesota – it sounds amazing!

Warm regards,

Rev. Tomkin

Rev. Tomkin Coleman
Voted 2007′s “Best Wedding Planner” by CitySearch
Voted 2010′s and 2011′s “Best Wedding Officiant” by Minnesota Bride Magazine

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Wedding barn in Belle Plaine, MN

Rubies and Rust wedding farm in Belle Plaine, MN

Wedding barn in Belle Plaine, Minnesota

Question:

Hello Rev. Coleman,

I recently finished a website for a friend showing a new wedding barn location in Belle Plaine, Minnesota called “Rubies and Rust“, and if a couple rents the wedding venue for all day, it’s only $1,000, which is a great price. Since you already list some great farms for weddings in MN, I thought your readers might be interested in this gorgeous site for wedding ceremonies and receptions!

Thank you very much.

George Bilak
carvingart.com

Answer:

Good morning, George,

Wow, thank you for this resource! Rubies and Rust sounds like an amazing wedding barn, only 45 miles southwest Minneapolis, just past Chaska (kind of), on one’s way to St. Peter or Mankato.

I wish you and Rubies & Rust Wedding Barn the very best!

Warm regards,

Rev. Tomkin

Rev. Tomkin Coleman
Voted 2007′s “Best Wedding Planner” by CitySearch
Voted 2010′s and 2011′s “Best Wedding Officiant” by Minnesota Bride Magazine

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Private chef for wedding rehearsal dinners in Minneapolis, MN area

Bravura Dining on Channel 11

Bravura Dining on KARE-11


Chef Leonard Anderson of Bravura Dining

Chef Leonard Anderson of Bravura Dining, catering wedding rehearsal dinners and other events in the Minneapolis, Minnesota area. Highly recommended!


One of my personal all-time favorite dishes...savory cones.

One of my personal all-time favorite dishes...the famous savory cones.


Question:

Hello, Rev. Tomkin,

My name is Leonard Anderson, I am the Chef / Owner of a high end catering – private chef company located in the Twin Cities called Bravura. I saw your wonderful article on wedding rehearsal dinner sites in Minneapolis, MN, and thought I’d drop you a line about another option – having your rehearsal dinner catered at your home.

At Bravura Dining, we specialize in bachelorette parties, intimate wedding dinners, rehearsal dinners, bachelor parties, tasting menus, cooking classes, grooms dinners, casual and fine dining catered events, elegant private dining, cooking demonstrations, etc. I have an extensive background in fine dining service and believe that our company provides topnotch food and service. I am emailing you to see if we can work together on providing a great service to your clients. Please take the time to check out Bravura Dining, and please feel free to contact us anytime.

Thank You,
Chef Leonard Anderson
e: questions@bravuradining.com
p: 651-357-8908

Answer:

Dear Chef Anderson,

Wow, I would love to tell readers about you! Bravura Dining is amazing!

Best wishes,

Rev. Tomkin

Rev. Tomkin Coleman
Voted 2007′s “Best Wedding Planner” by CitySearch
Voted 2010′s and 2011′s “Best Wedding Officiant” by Minnesota Bride Magazine

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Video of McNamara Wedding Showcase 2012


McNamara Alumni Center in Minneapolis, MN

McNamara Alumni Center in Minneapolis, MN

McNamara Wedding Showcase 2012

McNamara Wedding Showcase Video

From the video

Question:

Hello, Rev. Tomkn:

We loved having you at McNamara Center’s Wedding Showcase this year – and thank you for sending all those couples, too! Not sure if you knew there was even a videographer shooting the wedding showcase (Capture Studios) but here is the finished product.

I hope you like it! We’ll have it up on our website throughout the year so, as the last slide suggests, viewers can plan to attend the McNamara Wedding Showcase in Minneapolis, MN in January 2013!

Happy Spring!
Amy

Amy Leyden | Director of Sales & Marketing
McNamara Alumni Center
200 Oak St. SE, Suite 100 | Minneapolis, MN 55455
Phone: 612.625.8876
Facebook: MAC | Twitter: @McNamaraEvents

Winner of Best Meeting Facility (Non-Hotel) 2007-2010
Minnesota Meetings and Events magazine

 

 

Answer:

Hi, Amy,

Wow, that’s amazing! Such great work!

Loved the showcase, loved the Alumni Center (as always), and looking forward to working with you again!

Warmly,

Rev. Tomkin

Rev. Tomkin Coleman
Voted 2007′s “Best Wedding Planner” by CitySearch
Voted 2010′s and 2011′s “Best Wedding Officiant” by Minnesota Bride Magazine

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“Thank you” from reader


Minnesota wedding reception at the University Club

Wedding at the University Club on Summit Ave. in St. Paul

Wedding at the University Club on Summit Ave. in St. Paul

Question:

Dear Rev Tomkin,

I wanted to take a moment to thank you for providing such a great resource for the Minneapolis wedding community. My boyfriend and I have yet to become officially engaged but we’re toying with the idea of a Dec 2012 wedding in the Minneapolis, MN area. I feel that the least I can do is let you know how much I appreciate all the information on your website. Based on your reviews, I’m hoping to book a room at the Summit Ave University Club (once we get things more finalized) and I assure you that I will make them aware of how much your website pointed me in their direction.

Your site has been an invaluable reference for Minnesota brides and I want you to know how much I appreciate all the effort and time you’ve invested in it.

Thank you!

Sincerely,
Minneapolis Bride

Answer:

Good afternoon, Alex,

Wow, your email just made my day! Thank you! It’s funny, everyone goes through the same steps, with planning and figuring everything out, and yet there isn’t really much out there that’s helpful, so I try to make everything as easy as possible.

Congratulations on your engagement, and on your upcoming wedding, too! The University Club on Summit is a gorgeous site, isn’t it?

If you ever have questions, whether about sites, or anything else, I’m always here for you!

Warmly,

Rev. Tomkin

Rev. Tomkin Coleman
Voted 2007′s “Best Wedding Planner” by CitySearch
Voted 2010′s and 2011′s “Best Wedding Officiant” by Minnesota Bride Magazine

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Harrington Mansion – closed for wedding ceremonies

Harrington Mansion in Minnepolis, MN - no longer hosting wedding ceremonies

Question:

Dear Rev. Tomkin Coleman,

I just wanted to let you know that the Harrington Mansion in Minneapolis, MN, will no longer be hosting wedding ceremonies.

Saint Mary’s University acquired the Harrington Mansion and Zuhrah Shrine Center in June 2011 and is in the process of developing the them. The development includes renovating parts of the buildings, engaging a corporate caterer, and creating the operational infrastructure to produce future conferences and events. We anticipate that the development will be complete, at the earliest, by August 2012, and perhaps later.

While the Events Center will eventually be open for wedding receptions, the Mansion will be utilized only for University events and offices (and not available for wedding ceremonies or receptions).

Thank you in advance for your assistance with my request. If you have any questions, please contact me.

Cordially,
Ben

Ben Murray
Assoc. VP of Finance and Facilities
Schools of Graduate and Professional Programs
Saint Mary’s University of Minnesota
2500 Park Avenue South
Minneapolis, MN 55404
612.238.4526 – Office

Answer:

Dear Ben,

Thank you so much for your email! If you ever start hosting wedding ceremonies at the Harrington Mansion again, just let me know and I’ll put the info back up right away.

Good luck with your renovation!

Best regards,

Rev. Tomkin Coleman

Rev. Tomkin Coleman
Voted 2007′s “Best Wedding Planner” by CitySearch
Voted 2010′s and 2011′s “Best Wedding Officiant” by Minnesota Bride Magazine

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Need a wedding reception hall in MN , Friday, June 15th, 2012?

 Edinburgh USA in Brooklyn Park, MN Edinborough USA in Brooklyn, MN

Question:

Dear Rev. Coleman,

Even though I’m not using your services, I was just wondering if you knew of anybody that wanted to get married on Friday, June 15th, 2012 because I have to change my date due to family circumstances and was seeing if you knew anyone that would want to fill it. It is at Edinburgh USA in Brooklyn Park, MN, in the room upstairs with the big balcony. Thanks!

-Sarah :)
Sarah.Johnson@cuw.edu

 

 

Answer:

Good afternoon, Sarah,

Ooh, so sorry you have to switch your date! I don’t know of anyone offhand (sorry). Would you like me to post your email on my blog?

Warmly,
Rev. Tomkin

 

 

Answer:

Sure, Rev. Coleman, that would be great! I really appreciate it!

-Sarah :)

 

 

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Outdoor loving bride in Minnesota

Outdoor wedding at Minnetonka Orchards, in Minnetonka, MN

Question:

Hi Rev. Coleman,

I’ve been looking on your website and have found it to be very thorough and helpful. Thanks for providing such a great resource! I’ve got a question for you about Minneapolis wedding venues if you’ve got time to consider it and reply. If not, no worries! But if so, here it is. My boyfriend and I are hoping to get married this summer. We’d like an outdoor wedding ceremony and reception at one location, something fun and playful but not too casual.

We’d love to have lawn games or other fun things for the guests to enjoy at the reception. Can you think of any venues that would be suitable for us? We’ll be looking at the Woods Chapel in Orono as well as Outing Lodge in Stillwater,  Minnetonka Orchards in Minnetonka, so while we are willing to drive a bit out of the Twin Cities, we’d really prefer an outdoor wedding ceremony and reception in the actual city of Minneapolis or Saint Paul, MN. Do you know if there’s anything closer? Thank you!

Outdoors Loving Bride in Minnesota

Outdoor wedding at the Saint Paul College Club

Outdoor wedding at the Saint Paul College Club

Answer:

Dear OLBIM,

Congratulations on your upcoming wedding! Wow, a wedding reception at The Woods? That would be gorgeous! Yes, if you don’t want to go out of town, or even to the suburbs, there are definitely outdoor wedding options in Minneapolis and Saint Paul proper. I highly recommend the Saint Paul College Club, Summit Manor, and Gale Mansion. I’ve coordinated and performed outdoor wedding ceremonies at all three locations – and they worked wonderfully!

I hope this helps!

Warm regards,

Rev. Tomkin

Rev. Tomkin Coleman
Voted 2007′s “Best Wedding Planner” by CitySearch
Voted 2010′s and 2011′s “Best Wedding Officiant” by Minnesota Bride Magazine

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MN Wedding Makeup Services – Lovelo Beauty

  Lovelo Beauty in Minnesota

Eyelash extensions in MN 

Question:

Dear Rev. Tomkin,

My name is Lauren. I came across your Minnesota wedding blog while looking for Minneapolis bloggers and writers. I am a small business owner, also local beauty blogger in Minneapolis, and my business is called Lovelo Beauty LLC. I specialize in silk and mink eyelash extensions as an on-site service and also do make-up for photo shoots, weddings, senior pictures etc. I have been in the industry for almost 8 years, but recently started my own company.

Thank you for your time! Hope to hear from you soon.

Love,
Lauren O’Leary Pavelka

952-847-7612
Lovelo Beauty LLC
Twitter Facebook

Answer:

Dear Lauren,

What a lovely email! Your blog is wonderful, as is your makeup for Minnesota weddings (and the eyelash extensions look gorgeous!) . I hope we get to meet in person on a future wedding!

Warmly,

Rev. Tomkin

Rev. Tomkin Coleman
Voted 2007′s “Best Wedding Planner” by CitySearch
Voted 2010′s and 2011′s “Best Wedding Officiant” by Minnesota Bride Magazine

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Great article on Becoming a Wedding Planner

Wedding planners

Question:

Happy New Year Reverend Coleman,

How right you are on your article on how to become a wedding planner! I have been giving classes for persons wanting to become wedding coordinators/directors for over 20 years…and many of the applicants to the program were either family members or the brides who thought what a wonderful opportunity to pick up a new career..UNTIL they had to do other people’s weddings…and found out how much work was really involved that was behind the scenes of their own wedding!

You may have a copy of my training manual: WEDDING DIRECTING AND COORDINATING – A Training Manual with Challenging Stories and Scenarios –How to be a Professional Wedding Director with Competence,with Style, with Elan ISBN 978-0-9816172-1-3. If not, you may order it from Amazon, or my publisher Westview publishers, Brentwood, TN or from my website.

I just read your WONDERFUL WEBSITE…your site contains ALL the BEST! You are VERY WELL ORGANIZED, and recognized…congratulations on being the the BEST in Minnesota! It is one of the states we have not had the opportunity to visit…saving the rest of the USA for later retirement trips! It would be a privilege to meet you someday.

Happy New Year to you and your family.

Elaine M Parker, ABC Emerita
Member of ABC; ACF; AFWPI; TWESA; BBB;
Tel numbers: 615-298-2578 home
615-594-2578 mobile
4400 Iroquois Ave. Nashville, Tn 37205
(Reconstructing a new website 2012 to indicate my new retirement activities )
www.weddingswithelan.com

Answer:

Dear Elaine,

Thank you so much for your wonderful email! And good luck with your book!

Warm regards,

Rev. Tomkin

Rev. Tomkin Coleman
Voted 2007′s “Best Wedding Planner” by CitySearch
Voted 2010′s and 2011′s “Best Wedding Officiant” by Minnesota Bride Magazine

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Where to take wedding pictures in Minneapolis, MN

The Stone Arch Bridge in Minneapolis, MN

The Stone Arch Bridge area in Minneapolis, MN - great for wedding pictures

Question:

Good morning, Rev. Tomkin,

I need some help finding the perfect place for wedding pictures in Minneapolis, MN. I loved your article on how to find a wedding photographer in Minneapolis, by the way. It will only be the family we wanted to be nice and to make it an unforgetfull day Please, can you give me some advice??

Photogenic Bride

Answer:

Dear PB,

The most popular (and best) place for pictures is on, and around, the area of the Stone Arch Bridge in downtown Minneapolis. Your photographer will be very happy if you choose this spot! Here’s pictures of the area from John Weeks.

I hope this helps!

Warm regards,

Rev. Tomkin

Rev. Tomkin Coleman
Voted 2007′s “Best Wedding Planner” by CitySearch
Voted 2010′s and 2011′s “Best Wedding Officiant” by Minnesota Bride Magazine

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From the Wedding Showcase at the McNamara Center

Main room of the Mcnamara Wedding Fair

Main room of the Mcnamara Wedding Fair

Mcnamara Center for weddings in Minneapolis

Another shot of the gorgeous atrium of the McNamara Center

Free dance lessons at the wedding showcase!

Free dance lessons at the wedding showcase!

On-staff wedding coordinators were at the McNamara wedding showcase to show guests around, answer questions, etc. - VERY helpful!

Question:
Dear Rev. Tomkin,M

We met you tonight at the Macnamara wedding expo, after reading your blog article about the upcoming wedding showcase. (We are the couple from [deleted]…I’m sure you met a ton!)

We both really enjoyed talking to you and love that we felt a connection with you. Our wedding date and site is still to be determined (until after we see the Crow River Vineyard site in Hutchinson, MN and possible a couple mroe sites in the cities) but we will hopefully know by next weekend. If we decide on the Chanhassen Dinner Theater for our wedding ceremony and reception, we have to know by the 20th, and the date for that wedding would be 10/27/12. Either way, we wanted to be sure to connect with you, because we enjoyed chatting!

Sincerely,

One of the Happy Brides From the McNamara Wedding Showcase

Answer:

Dear OHBFMWC,

What a wonderful email!

I loved talking with you two last night – and I loved how you work together, thinking of each other’s feelings for each choice (and obviously enjoying each other’s company). Such great indications for the future!

Wasn’t the wedding show at the McNamara Center in Minneapolis wonderful? It was great getting to know you, and to talk to all the excited bride who were planning their upcoming wedding. Yes, as soon as your date/site/time is set, just let me know and we’ll set up a time to meet, chat, and plan.

I look forward to hearing from you!

Warmly,

Rev. Tomkin

Rev. Tomkin Coleman
Voted 2007′s “Best Wedding Planner” by CitySearch
Voted 2010′s and 2011′s “Best Wedding Officiant” by Minnesota Bride Magazine

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Love the Dolce Woodwind Quintet for Minnesota weddings!

 Dolce Woodwind Quintet in Minneapolis, MN

Dolce Woodwind Quintet, for weddings in MN

Dear Readers,

Once again, I got to work with the amazing Dolce Woodwind Quintet, this time at the University Club on Summit (FYI, more info on the quintet can also be found on my info page about their music, and info about the club can also be found on this page). Not only do they work incredibly well with the timing of wedding ceremonies, which makes my job easy, but I’m always so pleased to get to hear them – their sound is amazing!

How often do we get to hear live music? Especially something as gorgeous as woodwinds, and in an intimate setting. Sure, we could all be going to classical concerts all the time, and get to hear the Minnesota Orchestra or the Saint Paul Orchestra, and they’re lovely, too, but I have to admit, there’s something pretty special about being right in the same small room, getting to actually appreciate the sound right up close – and so the music not only puts everyone at ease before the wedding begins, it helps make everything (the seating of parents, the processional, the grand entrance of the bride with the ushers dramatically opening up the doors for her) a blessed and beautiful experience. Live music has such an effect on people…it makes the room and the wedding ceremony, well, simple but elegant. Such a great feat!

Such a gushing post…I just love getting to work with them. If you’ve been thinking about hiring a musician for your Minnesota wedding, you may want to look for something a little different than the string quartet you heard at your friend’s wedding, and check out the Dolce Woodwind Quintet. I love them, and I think you will, too!

Warm regards,

Rev. Tomkin

Rev. Tomkin Coleman
Voted 2007′s “Best Wedding Planner” by CitySearch
Voted 2010′s and 2011′s “Best Wedding Officiant” by Minnesota Bride Magazine

Wedding music in MInneapolis, MN

Photo by Karen K. Hansen

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Music duo for Minnesota wedding

Mandolin and guitar duo, Cafe Melange Music

Mandolin and guitar duo, Cafe Melange Music

Question (verbal question):

Dear Rev. Tomkin,

Here’s an unusual request – while we love the recommendations for MN wedding musicians that you post, we were looking for a wedding duo. Two instruments that can complement each other, but not a full quartet…do you know of anything wedding musician options like that in the Minneapolis, MN area?

MN Music Lover

Answer:

Dear MML,

Wow, I love getting a question that I’ve never had before! I didn’t know personally of any Minneapolis area musicians in this category, but asking wedding musician friends, we came up with this list, which are highly recommended:

Flute and cello (or violin and cello) with the Ensemble Con Brio (I haven’t worked with them personally, but I hear great things). For either a flute/cello duo, or a violin/cello duo, (and they have other combinations, too), Ensemble Con Brio can be reached at 651-274-5916, and their website is ensembleconbrio.com. A duo is $275 for first hour, $125/hour thereafter.

Mandolin and guitar – Brian Barnes (612-217-0564) with Cafe Melange Music – Base charge for a Minneapolis wedding ceremony is $325, which includes prelude, processionals, music during the ceremony, recessional and postlude, up to 90 minutes. They have a song list on our website for couple to peruse. They’ll also learn special music, but there is a charge for that under certain circumstances.

Two flutes (Dedrick Flute Duo), or
Flute and cello: $395
Their price for the ceremony includes 15 minutes of music before the processional, the processional(s), music during the ceremony, the recessional, and 10 minutes after the recessional. This is usually about an hour and the charge is $395. Any extra time for a social hour or reception is $80 an hour, and can be divided into fractions of an hour.
Also available from Polly Meyerding is the Lyric Duo (flute and harp), for $545. You can hear samples of their music at her website, and Polly’s phone number is 651-776-1780.

I hope this helps!

Warmly,

Rev. Tomkin
Rev. Tomkin Coleman
Voted 2007′s “Best Wedding Planner” by CitySearch
Voted 2010′s and 2011′s “Best Wedding Officiant” by Minnesota Bride Magazine

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Wording for adults-only wedding reception

Invitation from WeddingPaperDivas

Invitation from WeddingPaperDivas

Question:

Dear Rev. Tomkin (via personal conversation),

We would like to have an adults-only wedding reception, but do you have any ideas for how to word the wedding invitations?

Adults-Only-Event

Answer:

Dear AOE,

Inviting adults only to your wedding ceremony and reception is completely appropriate (and often appreciated by the parents…it gives them an excuse to go out for a night without the kids!)

The first step is to only include the names of the adults on the wedding invitation, e.g. “John and Jane Doe”. Then, on the invitation itself, rather than saying “Adults-only reception”, which is a negative sentence, a positive sentence to state “Guests 18 and above are welcome at the reception”. If anyone asks, you can say that you thought it would be nice for parents to have a free date-night without the kids.

I hope you find this helpful!

Warm regards,

Rev. Tomkin

Rev. Tomkin Coleman
Voted 2007′s “Best Wedding Planner” by CitySearch
Voted 2010′s and 2011′s “Best Wedding Officiant” by Minnesota Bride Magazine

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Wedding at Lake Harriet Rose Garden

 For weddings at the Lake Harriet Rose Garden

Question (phone call):

Dear Rev. Coleman,

Do you know who in charge of the Lake Harriet Rose Garden? Do you know how I could reserve this Minneapolis garden for my outdoor wedding ceremony, (assuming no one else has reserved it on my date yet)?

Thanks so much!

Minneapolis Outdoor Wedding Bride

Answer:

Dear MOWB (talking on the phone):

Sure! You probably saw my review of the different Minneapolis gardens for weddings that I publish, which describes several sites for outdoor wedding ceremonies in the Minneapolis, MN area. Note that the official name for the site is the Lyndale Rose Gardens (which is by Lake Harriet). The garden and park is run by the Minneapolis Parks Board, and their phone number is 612-230-6400. I love the Minneapolis Parks Board, by the way – they’re very nice, super-professional, and really helpful – a terrific resource! It makes me realize what a special thing it is to live in Minnesota, and in the Twin Cities – people really take pride in what they do, and public officials really think of themselves as public servants – they really care, and do a great job. Well done, Minneapolis!!

Now that it’s 2012, I’m hoping that this info will help a lot of other Minneapolis brides, too!

Warmly,

Rev. Tomkin

Rev. Tomkin Coleman
Voted 2007′s “Best Wedding Planner” by CitySearch
Voted 2010′s and 2011′s “Best Wedding Officiant” by Minnesota Bride Magazine

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Guitarist for Minneapolis wedding

Question:

Rev. Tomkin,

I thought I would send an email keeping you posted and ask some questions for my peace of mind. We still don’t know an exact date for our wedding but we have narrowed it down to early May. I was looking through your website and was wondering what people have typically done for music in an Minnesota outdoor wedding. We were looking at a guitar player that plays light Caribbean music, would this be okay with you or would you recommend something different? Sorry for all the questions.

Thank you!

Minneapolis Music Lover

Answer:

Dear MML,

Guitarist Joel ShapiraYes, a guitar player is a terrific choice for an outdoor wedding. Not only is live music gorgeous, but here’s the three main reasons why I recommend a guitarist for an outdoor wedding:

1. A guitarist will be especially good at reacting to the wedding ceremony, changing mood, style as necessary. A good guitarist will especially excel in this capacity.
2. Any guitarist will be much less expensive than a multi-musician group, such as a trio, quartet, or quintet.
3. If you wind up using the guitarist for the cocktail hour (or even the reception), and the reception is in a different location than the ceremony, a guitarist is very mobile will have no trouble moving. A harpist or string quartet, for example, would have much more difficulty switching sites.

By the way, I highly recommend Joel Shapira as a MN wedding guitarist (review here).

I hope the above helps!

Warm regards,

Rev. Tomkin

Rev. Tomkin Coleman
Voted 2007′s “Best Wedding Planner” by CitySearch
Voted 2010′s and 2011′s “Best Wedding Officiant” by Minnesota Bride Magazine

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2011 Minneapolis Wedding Showcase at the McNamara Center

Wedding showcase at the McNamara Center at the U of M

Question:

Dear Rev. Tomkin,

As you know, just around the corner — the evening of Wednesday, January 11, 2012 — is our third annual Wedding Showcase at the McNamara Center at the University of Minnesota in Minneapolis! It’s a great event to help engaged couples imagine a wedding reception in our spaced here. Delicious food, live music by a 10-piece band…very fun night. We hope to see you there!

Sincerely,

Amy
Amy Leyden | Director of Sales & Marketing
McNamara Alumni Center
200 Oak St. SE, Suite 100 | Minneapolis, MN 55455
Phone: 612.625.8876
Visit our website at www.mac-events.org
Facebook: MAC | Twitter: @McNamaraEvents

Winner of Best Meeting Facility (Non-Hotel) 2007-2010
Minnesota Meetings and Events magazine

Answer:

Dear Amy,

Ooh, I love the Wedding Showcase at the McNamara Center – count me in!

Note to readers: This is a super-fun event, completely free (although you need to RSVP here). There are hair and makeup consultations, you get to see all the rooms set up for weddings (which is really quite spectacular), and it’s a very festive atmosphere. It’s fun to actually enjoy being engaged – buying magazines, searching the internet, watching movies – and part of the experience is going to a wedding showcase, seeing various ways flowers can be set up, what food options are available, and what vendors offer in ways you might not think of (an espresso bar, or photo booth, for instance). Other wedding events are often held in non-wedding locations such as conference halls, which isn’t as inspiring as this one, which is held in the unique McNamara Center, with its fantastic architecture, water features, and combination of old and new design elements.

For instance, check out this old-school stone arch from the former University of Minnesota sports coliseum, which has been rebuild into the inside of the modern McNamara Center:

Arch in the McNamara Center

This arch is in the same room as the amazing avant garde architecture of the McNamara’s main room:

Photo of McNamara Center from Alex*arch'

There are other rooms available for wedding ceremonies and receptions, too, if your wedding is more intimately sized:

Other wedding reception options at the McNamara Center:

Johnson Great Room at the McNamara Center

Wedding ceremony in the McNamara Center

McNamara wedding reception

I’ve performed wedding ceremonies in all the above rooms (reviews here), and if you go to the Wedding Showcase, you’ll see them set up for receptions, and you can get inspired. Some brides go with their grooms, and some with their mothers or friends…either way, it’s a great way to spend time having fun being engaged, while getting to meet vendors, see the McNamara Center in all its different aspects, and spend time with your fiancé, mother, or girlfriends!

McNamara’s Wedding Showcase, Wednesday, January 11th, 2012, 5:30-8:00 pm.
200 Oak Street SE, Minneapolis, MN 55455
RSVP here.

See you there!

Warm regards,

Rev. Tomkin

Rev. Tomkin Coleman
Voted 2007′s “Best Wedding Planner” by CitySearch
Voted 2010′s and 2011′s “Best Wedding Officiant” by Minnesota Bride Magazine

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Minneapolis wedding chapel question

Question:

Hi, Pastor Tomkin,

I was lucky enough to find your site and I must say that I really appreciate all of the helpful information as I am just at the beginning of planning our wedding. We live in downtown St. Paul and really would like to have a “downtown” St. Paul wedding. I have to say that I really loved reading the background information about how you came to do what you are doing now. I was raised Catholic but also feel that it is very important to have my Native American heritage be a part of our wedding. My fiance was also raised Catholic and it is very important to him to get married in a Catholic church. Are there Catholic churches in St. Paul (we are willing to go outside of St. Paul if need be) where you have performed ceremonies? We are looking at a November wedding and possibly on a Friday night as we really want to have the wedding reception at the Landmark Center and this is the only time it is available. Please let me know, and again it was so nice to read your website and how you feel about those with different “feelings and beliefs.”

Thank you!

Landmark Bride

Answer:

Dear LB,

Thank you so much for all your kind words! You’ve made my day. I’ve actually performed several wedding ceremonies where one or both of the parties were Native American, so I have some familiarity with respecting the traditions of Native Americans.

I have also performed many interfaith wedding ceremonies where either the bride or groom is Catholic, so I am very familiar with the Catholic tradition. Unfortunately, Catholic churches have very strict policies regarding weddings – both parties must be Catholic, for instance, and they must both go through Catholic wedding counseling and be married by a Catholic priest. So while there are a couple Catholic churches in downtown St. Paul (St. Mary’s at 651-222-2619, and Assumption at 651-224-7536), I wouldn’t be able to perform the wedding ceremony there.

Have you thought about having a reverent, Catholic-tradition wedding ceremony at the Landmark Center? That option can be a good one, and with a minister performing the wedding ceremony, families are usually very receptive to the idea. That option might be worth talking over with the site manager – I have performed many wedding ceremonies at the Landmark Center and the site has worked extremely well.

By the way, if you’re interested in a piece of advice, here goes: If you like the Landmark Center at all (review of this St Paul wedding venue here), I would highly recommend booking it immediately. There are not that many banquet sites available in the Twin Cities, and they book FAST. (My services book up quickly, too, but you generally need to have a site, date, and time before you can reserve my services.)

Warm regards,

Rev. Tomkin

Rev. Tomkin Coleman
Voted 2007′s “Best Wedding Planner” by CitySearch
Voted 2010′s and 2011′s “Best Wedding Officiant” by Minnesota Bride Magazine

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